Wedding a beautiful event and wedding night for a bride a something that is very special. Every bride has some expectations from this night as well as nervousness. The night is full of excitement and nervousness as you both will be together the first time and this night will not be any other night. It is the night when you talk to each other your heart out, make life long promises and try to understand each other. This night is the gateway to your upcoming life together. Here are five amazing first night tips for every bride to be.
It Is Not All About Sex
Yes, we know that everyone out there is expecting some action and your friends, bridesmaids and other women are going to ask you the same question but the night is not all about sex. While sex is important in a couples life to create a physical bonding for your upcoming life but at the same time, it is not mandatory to have sex at the first night if you are not ready.
Relax And Enjoy Your Night Together
Wedding is a tiring event and you must relax to step in the next level. If you are thinking about the future then you will get anxious and if you are thinking about the past then you will get depressed and both the conditions are not good for your relationship. So take a deep breath and enjoy the present.
Remember that more than physical compatibility what matters is emotional compatibility. Be good friends and then take your relationship to the next level.
Awkwardness Is Fine
No matter how many times you met before, how long courtship period you had or you have a love marriage, awkwardness is fine. After all, this is the first time you are sharing the same room, same bed and same space and going to stay together for life long.
Personal Grooming Matters
This is the most basic thing. Personal grooming is must if you are going to get intimate with your spouse first time. Women took personal grooming very seriously by getting full body waxed and all men can also get groom. Women can wear a sexy set of night wears or lingerie and for men can wear perfume as nothing can resist a good fragrance.
Lower Your Expectations
You might be expecting a hot and amazing sex with your spouse but hold your imagination. First night sex is not one of the best sex that you will ever have. As the night is full of pressure, expectations and awkwardness so having the best sex is not possible at first night. However, you should appreciate the efforts of your partner. Make it one of the most memorable nights by getting close to each other.
So if you are going to get married in the next few days or months then keep these first night tips in your mind and move accordingly. Remember that we all are human and make mistakes so it is perfectly fine to be imperfect and enjoy togetherness.